Please…. Stop getting married EARLY!!!! I’m extremely sick of my family and friends trying to get married because they think that the shit is forever JUST because he or she doesn’t do all of the bad shit your EX did. That doesn’t mean you marry them! It means they’re a bit more upscale than your EX.. It’s called “You’re Doing Better”. This shit takes time.. and at 21-25 years of age nowadays you REALLY don’t know what the fuck you feel or know what the fuck you’re talking about.. Grow up and live life with them- and make that decision later on. Because you raise your kids with bias to believe that their significant other- or opposite sex isn’t worth shit just because of your bad experiences due to your premature decision making That continues the cycle of adultery and ignorance.